Betsy/BA BF says:

Everything hits at once. We lost our last baby, and while recovering, I woke and found my husband died in a horrific way. Immediately after my mother was diagnosed with terminal brain and lung cancer, dying shortly later, we lost our home, our dog and cat died, and mt best friend who was getting me through had a heart attack, dying at 43. You get through because you have kids. I have 5 kids who lost their dad, grieving everyone. I’ve been barely hanging on since my husband died.